The holidays have graciously left a savory aftertaste for the months to follow. Each day has been sweetly slow and meaningful. Maybe its my perspective or well placed gratitude. Maybe we are truly finding our rhythm. Truth is, I don’t ever remember being this happy or having this many consecutive “good days” in my LIFE. I am confident, joyful, and settling into my calling as a homeschool mother!
I think our home and school life really suffer when I’m anxious and uptight or in a hurry. Maybe things are going well because I’m relaxing more and more. I find myself breathing and laughing and playing more. I often recall something my husband once told me, “None of the paint and play dough matter, at the end of the day, when they look back all they will remember is how you treated them.” It’s funny, when I focus on that all the other stuff follows seamlessly. The work has been really meaningful lately and I want more of it. I am starting to see that a slow, relaxed, inviting space is the perfect recipe for meaningful growth and learning.
This month I am focusing most on how I treat my children (and how they treat me and each other). We are planning less in our day and focusing more heavily on what is before us. Mostly slow, meaningful, and ongoing investigation with unlimited book reading!Here are some of the other things we are doing!
We have been gearing up for our first snowy mountain trip to Colorado and have had a blast daydreaming of what it would be.
We made a calendar to count down the daysWe made clay snowmen
We’ve made colorful, glittery, paper mache mountains
We chalked a gorgeous whimsical snowscape Then we went on our trip! And it lived up to every part of our imagination. We have decided to make this an annual trip!!
Now that we are home I have a few ideas to invite them to further their questions about the trip!
We will make log houses
(The house we stayed in was a log cabin and Fin was really interested in how it was constructed.)
We will make snow play dough and combine our houses and mountains and log cabins and PLAY!
Maybe this will spark more questions the girls have about the trip!
On another note, my main focus for the next few months is to build our family culture around books. I’d like to talk more about that but will have to make a separate blog post!
We have done a brilliant job scattering books around the house on shelves and in baskets. We’ve carved out plenty of time to linger over books together. But I want more! So we are introducing audio books this month! I cannot wait! I’ve checked out the books with the CD’s from the library (and got an extra copy so both girls can have it in their hands while listening). It’s an exciting time in homeschool world!
I want to close by sharing a small victory that confirms the small decisions we make each day to shape our little ones lives.
One night I passed my girls bedroom (they share one) and was bewildered that they managed to turn their light on. Each night it kept happening and I kept going in to turn it off and reprimand them. After the third or fourth night I was maddened by it!! Until I realized they were reading (they are pre-readers)… They each have a basket of books in their bed and they couldn’t see the books they were reading!!! How exciting. They really love books. So, we got them flashlights so they can get lost in books each night (for now I go in for a last call, until they are older they need much rest). Mamas what you are doing day in and day out IS working. Keep at it!
May we do all things to connect with and learn from each other ✨