When I started the Cultivating Tradition series in November it was amidst the holidays. December naturally flowed next but now it’s January. Are/can there be traditions for the month of January? Not in the way of holiday where we celebrate an event on the same day each year but in the sense that as a family we are adding new habits or traditions each month that we want to carry out each day for the rest of our lives. Holiday crafts are whimsical and fun but what traditions do we want to define our lives.
Here are the the habits we are committing to for the month of January:
My husband is a gifted brewer. This is one more way for the girls to spend quality time with their father while learning a difficult and thrilling trade. Science, math, creativity, determination, and entrepreneurship are just a few of the concepts that will be gleaned from this family activity!Authoring stories
A few morning baskets ago we relocated our time from the reading nest to the bed because the girls were sick. In attempts to keep the girls still for a few moments longer (and to prolong the turning on of yet another movie) I grabbed a pen and paper and we spun a story together. So far it’s about a princess named Powgee who finds herself swallowed up by a bad guy named Purdo Gurdo. Only to sneeze herself out of his belly and into the forest. She then spreads her sparkly wings and flies away… I look forward to see what happens to Princess Powgee. I’d like to add this practice to our morning basket (if the interest and excitement continues). I’d love to add illustrations in later and make them into a book of short stories!!On-going project Studying Pagosa Springs
It’s my desire to carve out space most everyday for self-directed projects. The girls choose the idea, materials, plan, execution, and revisions to an ongoing project. This is a new concept for us and my girls are young so this month I’m modeling the process with a topic they are super interested in. The day we told them we were going to the mountains for a snowy ski trip they have asked everyday when we are leaving. The first aspect on the agenda is to make a calendar together to give them a tangible representation of when we are leaving to alleviate frustration. And I foresee observational drawings, trips to the library, constructing landscape and cities etc.!
Making meals together
Food is an after-thought in our home. And I like it that way. We graze as we work on projects, pursue interest, and enjoy each other. That being said, I see the value in making and having meals together as a family. It doesn’t fit our life to do that every day but I’d like to stir, mix, measure, cook, gather, pray, eat and talk together a few times a week.Story telling with Beatrix Potter at Tea Time
Each afternoon we gather around tea and treats to linger over classical authors. Beatrix Potter and E.B. White have been dear friends to us. We received the most gorgeous complete collection of Beatrix Potter that we cannot put down! The same dear friend, and homeschool mom, who gifted them to us also imparted great wisdom on the value of story telling. I look forward to adding little figurines to our experience and to retell together the most beautiful stories ever written for children.
Some encouraging fathers, looking to encourage their homeschooling wives, have asked me how they can assist their wives in the process. I present to you Daddy School.
Each day when daddy comes home Daddy School starts. My wonderful husband takes over. He takes the children out to gather eggs from the coop. He asks them about their day and is available to them for the next few hours before they go to bed. Ideally this time will be spent working on his projects with them or him working on their projects with them. For now its mostly spent wrestling (per the girls request) which I’m fine with. This is when the girls get special story time to the sound of their daddies voice. And are prayed over by him and tucked into bed by him. It’s a very precious time I know they will always remember. I get to spend all day with them. These hours are invaluable. It’s also a very important time for me to step back and work on my own, read for enjoyment, take a bath, whatever. Again Invaluable.
Well there you have it! That’s our January.
For more on our family culture for the year of 2016 click here!
May we do all things to connect with and learn from each other ✨